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Table of Contents |
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| Introduction: Changing Relationships | 7 |
| About the CD | 11 |
| A Wealth of Information and Assistance | |
| Chapter 1: Meet Mama Jus | 13 |
| Chapter 2: Our Home or the Rest Home | 27 |
| Costs Associated with Eldercare | 27 |
| Medicaid, Medicare, Medigap | |
| Medicare Supplemental and Long-Term Care | 30 |
| Chapter 3: Home Safety Checklist | 33 |
| Chapter 4: My Experiences as an In-Home | |
| Eldercare Provider | 59 |
| Part 1: The Practical | 59 |
| Where Should Mama Jus Be? | |
| Bank Accounts and Banking | |
| Incontinence | |
| Supervision, Safety, and Security | |
| Help from the Family—All of the Family | |
| Mama Jus’ Insatiable Appetite | |
| Secretary/Bill Payer | |
| Outside Care Providers | |
| Dementia and Physical Deterioration | |
| The Balancing Act—Independence and Capability | |
| Part 2: The Emotional | 109 |
| Love, Fear and Worry, Fatigue, Sadness, | |
| Isolation, Frustration, Anger, Guilt, Grief, | |
| Surprise/Joy, “Wheel of Emotions,”Conclusion | |
| Chapter 5: Eldercare: from the Pros | 119 |
| Chapter 6: The Rewards of Eldercare | 135 |
| Chapter 7: The Role of the Secondary Caregiver | 139 |
| Appendix: | |
| Resource Guide and Products for the Elderly | 143 |
| Acknowledgments | 167 |
| About the Author | 169 |
| Index | 171 |
